Your relationship is too important to not see a therapist
Entering into a relationship means merging your life with another person, understanding his or her flaws, seeing their quirks and listening to their beliefs. With marriage rates declining and divorce statistics set at 50%, it is clear that people are increasingly challenged by marriage and relationship issues, and many lack effective ways to address them. So how can we bridge the gap to understanding our partners better and enjoying romantic bliss?
Many factors affect our relationships and sometimes it's hard to see the cause of conflict or friction in a relationship. Before splitting up or divorcing, it is often beneficial to speak to someone in a bid to try to salvage the relationship.
Signs that indicate a need for couples counselling include:
poor communication
affairs
reoccurring fights
acting out negative feelings
When divorce seems like the only option, or you’re staying together for the kids' sake, that's a sure sign that therapy is needed.
I do not necessarily believe that all marriages can be salvaged, but counselling can often help even some of the most challenged relationships. Through therapy, you bot can discover again why you fell in love and what you can do to get back to that place in your marriage. We will use a range of effective, proven methods to help couples in any situation to restore intimacy and move past the hurt and wounds to a safe and comfortable place.
The tools we will use provide you both with guidance in a supportive and encouraging setting and empower you to restructure your thoughts and emotions.